Good self-awareness is important for success in life, but few are truly well versed in self-knowledge. Self awareness is something that many of us think we grasped and are good at. You’ll hear people talk about how they know who they are… but the question is …Do you really know who you are?
I’ve spent a chunk of time trying to answer this question. I’ve tried to read, meditated, listened to podcasts and I can confidently say that it took me a while but I think I’m on the right truck. I’m deffinately a different person from when I started 2 years back and I hope I can share some of the little knowledge I’ve picked up on my self awareness journey . Self-awareness requires both internal (knowing yourself) and external (how you’re perceived) understanding.
Focusing on your assets, meaningful activities, and evolution enables you to build self-awareness more intentionally in your life. Changing your routine, doing things you’ve never done before, trying to get out of your comfort zone.. all this has personally helped me on this journey and discovered I had so much fire within me and so much positivity to offer to whoever needs some. I have never been this fulfilled in my life. Knowing who you truly are makes you ready to face whatever comes your way.
Lack of self awareness has a profound implication for your confidence, relationships, and success in both work and life in general. A constructive path towards self-improvement when facing challenges includes reviewing both what went wrong and alternative strategies, instead of ruminating over the why.
We all have natural tendencies that can be used to foster authenticity, success and we have an inherent sense of what we find meaningful and impactful to us. By focusing on what energizes us, what we do naturally well, and work that inspires us, we can also move into developing our most authentic and best self with greater ease and enjoyment.
Here are some tips I use for discovering and cultivating my best selves: feel free to pick out those that work for you.. 😊😊
1. Develop your natural tendencies
We are born with a unique array of personality traits that, when understood and intentionally developed, can be used to improve our lives. Like using your dominant hand for physical tasks; having self-awareness of our natural tendencies can help us succeed with less energy and effort. Understanding personality traits can also help us to understand and appreciate others. I’ve always been good at paying extra attention to people and this has helped me to read different personalities and that’s why it’s easy for me to have people comfortable around me.
In addition to strengths, we can leverage many other personality tests to improve our self-awareness like values assessments, this may sound funny but I also use horoscopes these damn things are most times on point. 🤣 <excuse my language>
Make sure you take the extra effort to reflect on how your strengths and personality types express themselves throughout everything you do. Identify and experiment with ways to live your life in greater keeping with your values. Cultivating such practices regularly eventually becomes a habit that will help you become authentically self-actualized. And that’s when you will realise how awesome you actually are.
2. Cultivate meaning through purpose
We all have a different sense of what’s most meaningful to us; it’s important to pay attention to what feels most satisfying. For example, paying for a ticket for one of your favorite artist’s concert might have some people jumping out of bed to go to work each day, but might cause others to run away. What matters is that we find what is most important to us and find a way to pursue that effort regularly. Just find what brings that spark into your life and focus on it. Don’t get tired of filing your cup. When your cup is full then you can pour into other people’s cups. This is something that was really hard for me to learn being an extreme independent person makes it hard for me to ask for help yet am always ready to offer it to others. This drained my cup terribly. I’m still trying to learn how to be less independent and to know that it’s okay to be selfish sometimes. You’ve got to always come first no matter what. Unless if it’s a matter of life and death 🤔🤔. I prioritize my peace of mind and mental stability because I know what it’s like to not have it.
Also noticing what songs, stories or movies feel most moving to us can also provide clues as to what challenges feel most deeply resonant (personal communication).
I’ve also learned that it is important to be open about the path and outcome of my pursuit of purpose. Though I consider myself a pretty smart person, my current path has me in circumstances that are beautiful beyond imaginations. Too narrowly restricting the conceptualization of the outcome can close us off from great opportunities and adventures. #follow your heart and energy
To create a happy heart and energized body, wherever possible we should pursue activities that cause happiness, joy, satisfaction, and excitement, and are energizing and engaging. Using and building on our natural tendencies while in pursuit of meaningful activities is a powerful way to feel fully alive and engaged. Those that know me will tell you how magical I think it is to jump around on loud music. And this is something I do so often besides meditation.
4. Embrace openness and evolution
Since I suck at reading I usually just pick up a few lines that speak to me and somewhere I don’t recall I picked up that self-awareness can be harder for highly experienced professionals and experts because of overconfidence. Therefore, embracing openness and a willingness to change our minds, take in new information about ourselves, and apply it to our learning and growth, can enable continuous improvement in self-awareness with respect to both our inner and outer worlds.
Leveraging the many excellent resources online, in bookstores for those that love reading.. for the good listeners and writers like me finding podcasts, classes, and workshops is a great way to avoid reinventing the wheel in this important personal and professional area. Find the right resources and support and continue to evolve. The benefits will serve you for years to come.
I wish you all the best on your journey of self awareness… break a leg!!! 🤗😇